Caring for a parent with dementia often means making tough calls; few are trickier than the ethical dilemma of whether to start using technology, such as GPS, to track your parent if there prone to wandering. At first glance, the benefits seem clear: real-time location updates, quicker responses in emergencies, and maybe even delaying the need for full-time care. But beneath the surface lie difficult questions about privacy, consent, and the kind of care we want our loved ones to receive.

This post looks at both sides—how tracking can help, and where it might cross a line—so you can make a more informed, compassionate choice.

Why Families Turn to Tracking

Dementia can affect memory, judgment, and awareness. As dementia progresses, wandering becomes more common—and more dangerous. Someone might leave home and forget where they are or how to get back, putting them at risk of getting lost, injured, or exposed to the elements.

GPS tracking devices aim to help. Most are worn on the wrist or as pendants and offer real-time updates, alerts when someone exits a “safe zone,” and two-way communication. For many family caregivers, these tools bring a sense of relief and security.

The Pros: Safety, Independence, Peace of Mind

Tracking technology isn’t just about avoiding worst-case scenarios. When used well, it can also:

• Improve safety: Know where your parent is at all times and act fast if something goes wrong.

• Support independence: Let your parent continue walking or being active, without constant supervision.

• Ease stress: Reduce the worry and allow yourself to focus on other responsibilities.

• Delay full-time care: Keep your parent living independently at home for longer, with fewer risks. (See here for more on the benefits of aging in place).

The Cons: Privacy, Consent, and Over-Reliance

But it’s not all upside. Tracking a loved one raises real concerns:

• Loss of privacy: Your parent might not know they’re being tracked—or may not agree to it.

• Consent issues: If they’re no longer able to fully understand, is it ethical to decide for them?

• Resistance: Some people simply won’t wear the device, or may forget to charge or bring it.

• Too much reliance on tech: A GPS alert isn’t a substitute for personal care or supervision.

• Cost: Good devices can be expensive, and not all families can afford them.

Ethically, it comes down to this: How do we protect someone while still respecting their autonomy?

Expert Advice: How to Decide (and When)

Experts agree—there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. But there are some helpful principles:

• Involve your parent early: Talk about tracking while they can still express their wishes.

• Don’t force it: If they say no, listen. If they can’t consent, bring family and professionals into the discussion.

• Make it part of a care plan: Treat tracking as one tool, not the only one.

• Be transparent: Let everyone involved know what’s happening and why.

• Review regularly: As your parent’s needs change, so might your approach.

The Role of Caregivers

For a person with dementia living at home, having a consistent, private caregiver is often highly valuable in maintaining both safety and quality of life. A private caregiver offers hands-on support, structure, and emotional connection—things that technology can’t replace.

But technology can enhance that care. GPS tracking devices, for example, can provide families with an added layer of safety and responsiveness, especially if a loved one tends to wander. Used together, personal care and smart tools create a more complete support system—one that helps individuals with dementia stay at home longer, with dignity and peace of mind for the whole family.

Final Thoughts

Choosing to track a parent with dementia isn’t easy. It’s a personal decision shaped by safety concerns, values, and the realities of care. Done thoughtfully—with transparency, consent, and the right support—it can be a helpful part of a larger care strategy. But it’s not a silver bullet.

Keep the focus on your parent’s quality of life. Use tools to support—not replace—human connection. And don’t be afraid to ask for help. Dementia care is hard. You don’t have to do it alone.

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